What if the standard 'fairness' of 50/50 custody is actually damaging your child's brain? Dr. Erica Komisar reveals why the first three years are a non-negotiable biological window where a child's stress-regulating system is built, and how common divorce practices may be rewiring our children for a lifetime of anxiety. We have prioritized adult career goals and legal equality over the fragile neurological needs of infants, and the cost is a generation that cannot regulate their emotions.