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The mimetics of marital decline and the new prudishness The fundamental structure of human society is undergoing a seismic shift that defies traditional demographic predictions. A recent Wall Street Journal column reveals that 40% of young adults now believe marriage has outlived its usefulness. This is not merely a statistical anomaly but a reflection of a profound change in how the next generation perceives social templates. As Louise Perry observes, the decline of marriage is driven by a mimetic feedback loop. When half of the children in cities like London reach age fifteen without a biological father in the home, the very concept of a stable nuclear family becomes an abstraction rather than an aspiration. Humans are intensely social creatures, obsessed with what is deemed normal. If the prevailing social landscape lacks visible examples of successful family life, the desire for such structures withers. This shift is a stark rebuttal to the long-held assumption by demographers that humans would naturally settle at a replacement fertility rate of 2.1 children. There is no biological law of nature mandating that number; instead, we look to our immediate peers. When the norm shifts toward zero or one, the mimetic pressure follows suit, leading to what many now characterize as a fertility downward spiral. We are also witnessing a transition from an era of hyper-licentiousness back toward a new form of prudishness. Historically, cultural attitudes toward sex have flip-flopped, but the current era is unique because of the intervention of technology—specifically the birth control pill. Before the 1960s, most women treated sexual decisions with gravity because the biological consequences were inescapable. The decoupling of sex from reproduction removed the "glass ceiling" on licentiousness, but we are now reaching a tipping point where the social and psychological costs are becoming too high to ignore. Technology as the primary engine of gender relations To understand the current state of gender relations, one must look at material reality rather than political rhetoric. The liberation of women was not solely the work of feminist intellectuals; it was fueled by the internal combustion engine and the washing machine. When the importance of male muscle power dropped like a stone, the economic necessity for traditional patriarchal structures began to dissolve. In a modern service-based and "laptop" economy, women often hold a distinct advantage. Their higher average levels of conscientiousness and agreeableness make them, in many ways, better suited for the median range of professional roles than the average man. However, this technological affluence has created a vacuum of purpose for normal men. Unless a man exists in the far-right tail of extreme intelligence or success, the modern world has fewer demands for his traditional contributions. This leads to what has been termed the "disposability of men." While the manosphere often argues that women were happier in the past, they frequently overlook the fact that such loyalty was often the result of financial imprisonment rather than choice. The challenge now is that the current status quo, while more free, appears unsustainable. Any culture that stops reproducing itself will inevitably be overtaken by cultures that prioritize tradition and long-termism, such as Mormons or Ashkenazi Jews. The physiological impact of hormonal birth control The birth control pill has had second-order effects on human biology that we are only beginning to quantify. Researcher Sarah Hill has documented how hormonal contraceptives can fundamentally alter a woman's attraction to her partner, often leading her to select for "provisioners" rather than "protectors." When women eventually come off these hormones, they often find themselves in a "hormonal fugue state," wondering why they are in a relationship with a partner they no longer find attractive. Furthermore, there is compelling evidence that male testosterone levels are mediated by the fertility of the women in their local ecology. When a large percentage of women are artificially suppressing their fertility, men's physiological responses may be dampened. Testosterone levels in men have been dropping by roughly 1% every year since 1950. While high testosterone is associated with violence, low testosterone is associated with a lack of ambition, recruitment crises in the military, and a general withdrawal from the dating market. The result is a society of increasingly placid, sexless, and online individuals—a trade-off that has profound implications for national resilience. MeToo and the collapse of the approach The MeToo movement was a necessary reckoning for criminal actors like Harvey Weinstein, but its broader application has created a significant chilling effect on normal social interaction. Data suggests that 50% of men aged 18 to 24 have never approached a woman in person in their lives. The fear of being falsely accused or labeled as a predator has caused the "nice guys" to retreat, while the actual predators—those likely to commit multiple offenses—remain undeterred by social media hashtags. This retreat from physical approach is compounded by a loss of social vocabulary. We have replaced moral concepts like "chivalry" or "gentlemanly behavior" with the binary legal bar of "consent." Consent is a low bar; it is a legal requirement, not a moral ideal. By eroding the social norms that once governed the asymmetry between the sexes—the recognition that 99% of men can physically overpower 99% of women—we have actually made the dating world more dangerous for women. Without the cultural "fence" of chivalry, which treats women as worthy of special protection, we are left with a ruthless world where predators can more easily identify and target "prey." Social media and the female mental health crisis The mental health of young women is currently in a state of freefall, with 60% of girls aged 12 to 16 reporting persistent feelings of hopelessness. While boys suffer from isolation, Jonathan Haidt has argued that social media is uniquely toxic for girls. Because women are evolutionarily primed to be socially sensitive and to form alliances for survival, the digital environment of Instagram and TikTok weaponizes these instincts. Girls use these platforms to perform social sabotage and to compare themselves against a global, airbrushed pool of competition. This creates a false impression of the "intersexual competition pool," leading girls to feel inadequate compared to surgically enhanced celebrities. We also see the rise of "social contagion" in mental health, where traits like anorexia or even Tourette-like tics spread mimetically through female peer groups. The "witchy" intuition of women—their ability to sense social cues—is being short-circuited by algorithms designed for engagement, not for the flourishing of the human spirit. The rivalry of body positivity and cosmetic surgery There is a darker, more competitive undercurrent to social movements like body positivity. While framed as inclusive, Perry suggests that female support for these movements may be driven by intersexual competition. By encouraging peers to opt out of the "fitness" game, women may be subtly pushing competitors out of the dating pool. This is mirrored in the beauty industry, where technological innovation has created a bottomless market for enhancement. In the past, dying one's hair was an extreme measure; today, it is the baseline for being considered "well-groomed." We are in an aesthetic arms race where the "Overton window" of beauty is constantly shifting upward. Women spend massive sums on fillers, Botox, and luxury goods like YSL purses not to attract men—who are largely oblivious to these details—but to signal status to other women. It is a price enforcement mechanism and a threat display of mate investment. As we look toward the future, the primary challenge will be acknowledging that there are no solutions, only trade-offs. The technological and social experiments of the last 60 years have granted unprecedented freedom, but they have also brought us to an evolutionary bottleneck. Restoring a sense of long-termism and functional gender relations will require more than just politics; it will require a return to the recognition of our fundamental human nature.