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The Paradox of Hookup Culture Despite a decade of cultural messaging celebrating hookup culture as a path to empowerment, Gen Z is experiencing a documented "sex recession." Writer Freya India highlights a jarring contradiction: while platforms like Teen Vogue and mainstream podcasts aggressively normalize casual encounters, actual sexual activity among young people has stalled. This suggests that the saturation of sexual content hasn't fueled liberation but has instead created an environment where intimacy feels increasingly fraught and transactional. Media Influence and Defensive Living India points to the influential podcast Call Her Daddy, hosted by Alex Cooper, as a primary source of what she describes as "terrifying" messaging. By adopting the aggressive banter typically found in the male-dominated manosphere, these platforms tell women they are products with a rating. When cultural leaders warn that men will inevitably cheat or that vulnerability is a liability, they cultivate a defense-mechanism bravado. This prevents the very connection and safety required for healthy sexual relationships to flourish. The Trauma of Early Digital Exposure Perhaps the most damaging factor is the accidental exposure to pornography at ages as young as six or eight. This early, out-of-context consumption through Twitter or Instagram warps a young person's internal blueprint for intimacy. It shifts the self-perception of young women from sentient beings to mere objects—a phenomenon India calls being "porn-brained." When sex is viewed simultaneously as a meaningless transaction and a source of potential trauma, the natural response for many is to opt-out entirely. Challenging the Progressive Consensus India argues that the refusal of many commentators to criticize the mental health industry or pornography without endless disclaimers is a disservice to the younger generation. By focusing on the darker realities of these industries, she advocates for a skeptical perspective that prioritizes long-term well-being over immediate digital validation. Moving forward, the path to resilience requires acknowledging that current cultural scripts for intimacy are failing the very people they claim to empower.